Thursday, April 17, 2014

My Dearest Family,

My Dearest Family,
How can I even begin to put into words my love for each one of you. It seems like an impossible task.

Graham, you are the husband God knew I was always meant to have. I am in awe and so grateful for your godly leadership of our family. Thank you for listening to that still, small voice that led our family on this journey and brought us our girl. Thank you for always working so hard. Not only in your job but in all walks of your life--in our marriage, as a father, and in your faith life. Our wedding song "You Move Me", will always apply in ways you could never know. You move me to do better, be better, and seek more. I love you and this sweet family you have blessed me with.
Nicholas, my sweet, sweet boy. You made me a mommy and forever stole my heart. I couldn't be more proud of the amazing young man you have become. Your character and sweet personality, your faith and love for others, and your desire to always do the right thing--you are more than we could ever dream of! Thank you for being the best big brother to your brother and sister. Thank you for opening your heart and our home to share with your new sister. You teach them both new and wonderful things each day. How to be kind and loving, how to say new words, and throw a ball, learn the alphabet, the list goes on and on. What a gift you are to us all!
Nolan, my forever cuddly bear. Oh that face that melts my heart! Seeing you as a big brother has been an incredible thing. You were always meant to be a big brother. How you take care of your sister and stand up for her when she needs protecting. You are always carrying her around (even when I tell you not to) and longing to hug and hold your sister (the cuddly bear in you after all). The first words out of Vera's mouth each morning are usually "Nolan?" as she can't wait to get out to see you. I love seeing the bond between you two. And oh the bond of brothers, best friends. May you two always be as close as you are now. It may get loud around here, but boy is it fun! And you cutie pie, are always adding laughter and smiles to our home. What a gift you are to us all!
Vera Kate, my dancing girl. Will you ever know how you have transformed our family? Your name means "pure faith". Fitting as our path to you was nothing but faith. Trusting in God for the best for you and for our family. And that whatever that might be that it would bring Glory to God. I am forever grateful that this path brought you to our family, FOREVER. You are our daughter, and sister, forever. It's so good to say those words. You have brought so much dancing and laughter and joy and life into our home. You have opened our eyes up to the world around us; to children and families in need. You've given us a purpose and a calling that is bigger than ourselves. You've made us a multiracial family and given us an education we'd never receive in a classroom. All this in your tiny little body, your young little life. No wonder you sleep so well, dear one. Oh daughter of mine, what a gift you are to us all!

I will never understand how God could have gifted me with the blessing of you four to love and care for. But I will spend my days seeking to live up to the honor of it all.

Thursday, February 13, 2014

4 months later...

I think the reason that my posts are so far apart is twofold. 1) I have 3 kids and never any time to devote to this and 2) It makes me so sad that I can't post pics of Vera here as she is in nearly all of my pics of course!

But we've had a very busy winter as always. October continued with more soccer fun, school fun, and Halloween! Nicholas was a Ninja Turtle, Nolan was Batman, and Vera was a ladybug.

In November we celebrated Vera's 1st birthday! It happened to be Orphan Sunday as well and Graham and I had the privilege of sharing our testimony at church and inviting others to become foster parents. Miss V looked beautiful on her big day and we had a lovely party at Mom and Dad's home with all of our family in attendance. And Nick lost his first tooth!! We celebrated Mimi and PopPop's birthdays (well we got sick for PopPop's...) and Turkey day. Unfortunately right after Mimi's birthday Nolan came down with a bad flu-like cold and it passed to all 5 of us. I got it the worst and we were all so sick for a looooong time. We did manage to celebrate Thanksgiving with Grandad and Kaki and had a nice relaxing visit at their cabin.


In December we celebrated our many family birthdays: Uncle TJ, Trip, Nolan!, Aunt Ashley, and now Eli too! For Nolan's fourth birthday he invited a few of his buddies to play at Chuck E. Cheese. He had loads of fun! Nolan had his Christmas program and we attended NACF at church and Mady was in the Nutcracker! Lots of Christmas parties and family time made it very special. We ended the year with a fun New Year's Eve party with friends at our house.


January and February have been cold, cold, cold, and more cold. We have missed so much school due to cold, snow, and ice! The first day back to school was cancelled due to below freezing temps. Then 2 weeks ago we had SnowJam2014. It began to snow in the middle of the day and quickly stuck to roads causing ice everywhere. Schools closed and parents rushed to get their children but got stuck all over the city. Thousands were stranded, even not making it home until the next day. Uncle TJ was one of those stranded and Uncle Jay had to abandon his car and walk home the last many miles. Nicholas was stuck at school for 2 hours and I was panicked but that was nothing considering the many others stories out there. This week we did it all over again although thankfully everyone was safe and sound in their homes as ice and snow have covered Atlanta. Yet another week off of school. We made the best of it this time watching the Olympics, playing our own version of snowlympics and enjoying our time together. I am ready to get out of the house tomorrow though after 4 days at home!! We did manage to take the boys to a UGA basketball game in January which was very fun! And last week we celebrated Papa's 95th birthday!! Can't believe it! We had a wonderful party at mom's house and the Hensley's came into town. What a great visit and we got to meet Conrad for the first time!


Well that's all for now! Next up, baseball, soccer, tball, and music class begin and hopefully Spring!! And most of all hopefully some ADOPTION news soon!!!